stgegodess wants to directly connect (10:39:30 PM).
stgegodess has cancelled request due to no response from you; no connection was made. (If you and your buddy are each behind a different firewall, then the connection will not work; check with your network administrator if you are not sure about your firewall status. You should also try going into the Talk or IM Images sections of AIM preferences and toggle the 'Use Address' option.) (10:40:12 PM).
if you could see what she tried to send me thru aim than emailed me instead, you'd see the cute pic she made to cheer me up! yay!