June 9th, 2003
|06:42 pm - okay|
kitty took me off her friendlist. oh well.
yep. that's the way my cookie crumbles.
wow what happened, talk to me on aim about it!
i dont know what happened! i shall
|Date:||June 9th, 2003 08:41 pm (UTC)|| |
ah! it's been nearly two weeks since th elast kitty drama... i was getting worried!
::hugs:: i hope it works out hon, whatever's for the best...
THERE IS NO DRAMA.
we're not friends, so i took him off my friendslist. end of tale. no big deal. no drama.
|Date:||June 9th, 2003 10:18 pm (UTC)|| |
You still seem to be reading though... =)
|Date:||June 9th, 2003 11:24 pm (UTC)|| |
you! trillian! now! =)... please?
|Date:||June 10th, 2003 12:23 am (UTC)|| |
I have gAIM on. Trillian doesn't run on Linux, dear. You don't seem to be AIMing though
i knew things would be said about me. and i like to know what they are.
|Date:||June 9th, 2003 11:18 pm (UTC)|| |
well he seems fairly shocked at this new revelation... meaning you obviously didn't discuss the null and voidness of your friendship with him first. cutting ties suddenly and without explanation can seem to objective, third party observers as dramatic, whether intended or no.
drama isn't always on purpose, nor is it always hinged upon an event considered by most to be a "big deal."
why do you perceive everything someone says to dan about you as a personal attack? whether you like it or no, your relationship with him has been tumultuous and dramatic. it's been complicated and many faceted and complex. all relationships as they begin and end are dramatic. it's an inherent trait.
and, if you are, as you say, no longer friends with dan, why are you watching his journal so obsessively, waiting for his friends to offer comfort that you can construe as a personal attack?
pardon me if i sound at all impetuous or rude, but i believe your rather defensive and impolite retort was rather uncalled for. have a lovely evening.
obsessive? no. i knew something would be said about me and all of you would have a comment and i like to know what's being said about me.
haha i'm happy with my life now, and if i don't want to be friends with someone why should that matter? both ppl do not have to end a friendship. we haven't been friends for a loooong time and i'd like to keep it that way. my business, not everyone elses.
after this comment, i'm done. have a great life.
|Date:||June 10th, 2003 09:35 am (UTC)|| |
i knew something would be said about me
Perhaps you were expecting stuff to be said about you, but it seems that before you came back, what was said was comfort for Daniel-san, who seems saddened and surprised by your move.
my business, not everyone elses.
Actually, this being Dan's journal, his reaction, his group of people who care about him, stuff going on here seems less your business than you have purported.
after this comment, i'm done.
Ah, good. Then we all can get back to offering our support to Dan, which seems to have been interrupted by your return, which shifted focus to you. Goodbye.
|Date:||June 10th, 2003 02:25 am (UTC)|| |
so be it. if there's going to be this much drama about, maybe it's for the best. i'd say that was your decision to make, but it appears you had no say either. you deserve better.